So I have been adjusting to being the SINGLE me instead of the TAKEN me.
I’ve come to realize the benefits to being single.
First and most importantly, *drum roll* the freedom of choice. You can still, in theory, pick whoever you want. You can do whatever you want without thinking about how it’s going to make your significant other feel. You can't enjoy having crushes, you can't experience the feeling of having a guy or girl you like call you for the first time when you're involved in a relationship. And I don't think a boyfriend would approve of me going out to clubs and whoring myself out for drinks (just kidding), even if I don't let anyone touch me.
Secondly, you become completely dependant on another person. You're also accountable. If your significant other doesn't approve of your extracurricular activities, such as drinking, psychedelic usage, or even stepping inside the doors to strip clubs, guess what? You can't do it without getting a lot of shit for it. Yeah yeah, they're supposed to love you for who you are. But guess what? They don't!
You might get lonely every once in a while when you see practically all your friends with their boyfriends (except my wingwoman peas), but the freedom that you get is a definate bonus.
Ps- Passive Aggressive guys can just steer clear of my way.
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